1. Thank you My Sweet Reality and others for suggesting the awesome reckless legs syndrome remedy! Of course you know I (of all people) would LOVE something as crazy as shoving a bar of soap under my sheets. For some odd reason, since I wrote about it I haven’t once had any problems with the crazy legs, but I might just stick a bar of soap under the sheet anyway, because really, why not?!?

2. I was planning on apologizing for my last post, trying to find an adequate excuse for the graphic nature of it and begging your forgiveness for blogging about such things. Such things as the hanging beef jerky comment which probably was not necessary.

BUT!

Over the weekend I had some alarming revelations, it was like a voice from above. If Borat and Dr. 90210 can be considered ‘voices from above’ and in my book they can.

First, I was flipping through the channels and Borat was on cable, so of course I had to catch a few minutes of it. Sadly for me, the part I happened upon was when Borat is talking about his wife, who after three years of marriage just isn’t the SAME. You know. DOWN THERE.

"Her a va-gene hangsa down like a Wizard’s sleeve" was the way he put it.

I almost asphyxiated myself laughing so hard and then I thought, "Wait a frigging minute here — MY vagene is hanging down much like a Wizard’s sleeve" and all of a sudden, it wasn’t so funny.

And then, the very day I was again flipping through the channels I happened upon the reality show Dr. 90210, where Beverly Hills plastic surgeons perform a wide array of procedures on patients willing to talk about the before and after.

And take a little guessy at what the woman was having done…

Some kind of labia lift or labia plasty (and something else to her clitoral hood but I swear I won’t talk about that!). But plastic surgery to improve the appearance of her labia?!? And she’s not even a porn star where that kind of thing might be really important for your earning potential!

Now this one-two punch really floored me and so I’m coming to you with a question: Will my lady parts look at least SOMEWHAT normal after these kids are jettisoned, one way or another. Will my nether regions look anything like they did before I got pregnant or am I doomed? I have to know, I really do. I want to book my labia lift now, since I imagine the waiting list is months long.

3.  32 weeks and 4 days today.  Big as a house.  Big as a BIG house, to be specific. My last scan went well, Jax is just over 4 lbs. and Parker is just under, he was head down but she was breech.  And the NST this week also looked good, but I have to say all of my twin-pregnant friends (IRL and in Blogland) seem to be dropping like flies — everyone is on bed rest and it’s making me a tad nervous, people!

4. And finally, a close friend of our family passed away last weekend.  I wasn’t too sad, personally, because he was like 110 years old (depending on who you asked) and very sick.  But Rest In Peace Whirley Gig Joe, rest in peace. May your crazy dowsing rods show you the most direct route to heaven.

So last Friday I had the perfect day planned: 

"Working from home" entailed a quiet, relaxing breakfast followed by a pedicure* and an hour long foot reflexology appointment.

Sounds blissful, yeah?

Well, the babies had other ideas…apparently they’re already conspiring to make my life miserable, like all good kids, because I was experiencing some odd swelling issues.

I got used to the swelling during the day — remember how I said I was starting to look like the love child of

and

?

I had grown accustomed to the looks of horror on my co-workers’ faces as my feet and hands swelled throughout the day, so much so that by mid-afternoon I would lumber down the hall to the restroom on Frankenstein feet (as the ankles were nonfunctional) and hands the size of baseball gloves.

But at night usually the swelling would go down and by morning I would be much better.  Until last week, when the swelling would increase at night! I woke up feeling (and looking) like the Hindenburg.

I should have known once I called my doctor just to run it by the nurse that she would order me up to the office AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (said with much alarm).  And once I got there, even though my blood pressure was okay and they didn’t detect any proteins in my urine, they still sent me to labor and delivery at the hospital for a nonstress test.

Once I got there, out of breath from the 10 second walk, I took the wrong elevator up to the 3rd floor and had to ask directions to labor and delivery. A kind nurse pointed me in the right direction and then screeched, "CAN YOU MAKE IT?!"

I was sort of taken aback by the question and was mumbling a, "Yes, I’m fine thank y–" when an orderly yelled "I have a wheelchair, do you want me to take you there?!?"

Now I realize they were just doing their jobs and granted, I certainly LOOK nine months pregnant, but people PLEASE.  For the love of Christ, I’m not about to squeeze these kids out at this VERY moment!!

So that testing took about four hours as they had to make sure both babies were on the monitors, and then of course once we were set one would move and they would have to reposition the sensor.

Luckily everything came out okay, but now I have to go every week for follow up NSTs.  Which is okay, I guess at this point the more monitoring the better, to be on the safe side.  But it’s still stressful, to watch the numbers on the screen and listen to the heartbeats and  pray that all is well.

I go in on Monday for another growth scan, Tuesday for the NST and on Wednesday I see my OB, so next week is chock full o’ doctors’ visits.   I’m going to have my doctor write a note recommending I work from home on a more frequent basis starting the week of the 22nd, and also recommending I stop working the first of next month.  I’m not sure how my boss will take that, as he’s expecting me to be here for much of November, but at this point I know it’s what I have to do in order to get these babies to 36 or 37 weeks, which is my goal.

Wish us luck with that one, will ya?

*My need for a pedicure (which I STILL haven’t gotten!) rivals my need for some heavy deforestation in the nether regions.  BeBop even exclaimed how long my toe nails were, going crazy with picturesque references to a sloth and also?  A super hero-type creature who could jump ten feet in the air and slice the neck of her enemy using the aforementioned talons as deadly weapons.  Nice, huh?

And speaking of personal grooming (or lack thereof) may I continue this nonsense for a moment and talk – again – about the girlie parts?  Thanks. 

The untrimmed hedges are driving me CRAZY! I know when I brought this up before, many of you recommended I just leave it alone and go with the flow, so to speak, but I simply cannot take it any longer.

The whole AREA is so unattractive.

I think the the proud new Mommy to the Lemonheads tried to warn me about this, but really, what the hell is up with the changes that occur in the hoo ha region?

GAWD.

And not to be all 1960s burn your bra baby and empower yourself with a MIRROR and take a good look DOWN THERE woman, but I did make the mistake of using a mirror to see what’s going on and I swear, it looks like a meat locker where you’d hang long pieces of beef jerky to dry out.

And the hair growth!  In unfathomable new folds of skin I never had before!  (Is that too graphic? Should I have included a disclaimer here?) I finally ordered one of those lady razor contraptions and when I get it in the mail, I’m gonna fire it up like a motherfreaking weed whacker and GO TO TOWN. 

Really. 

I’m afraid if I don’t the doctor won’t be able to find the babies and they’ll be stuck down there until it’s time to start preschool or they’ll get caught up in the hair like little monkeys trapped in hanging vines. 

And that doesn’t sound like fun at all, does it?

Apparently my cervix is "a mile long," according to my doctor.  He didn’t even feel the need to measure it on Monday after my appointment two weeks ago!

Having a mile-long cervix sounds better than THIS (okay, before you click over, this isn’t the most tasteful YouTube clip evah, and you might not want to play it at work!).

Two weeks ago, I was actually okay surrendering the pants after a few months of clothes-on appointments, because I was anxious to find out how the old hoo-ha was doing.  And so far, so good.

We talked about starting my leave from early, and my doctor said it was basically up to me.  He said he’d write me a note to work at home more often, or recommend that I go on disability and stop working all together.  In a fit of total insanity, I thought I could make it into November, working from home 1-2 days a week.

But then I grew fricking HUGE and just getting to work is exhausting. I honestly look (and feel) like I’m nine months pregnant and should be delivering any day now.

The look of abject horror on people’s faces when, in response to the ‘when are you due’ question, I respond with ‘December 9th’ is just remarkable. They look like I just announced I was planning to give birth to a dozen or so kittens in my closet behind the shoe rack. 

They must expect an answer like, oh any day now, so the December bombshell just rocks their world.  Then I have to launch into a full discussion of how I’m carrying twins and they always come early and blahdy blah blah, because I get so self-conscious about it.

Many people ask if twins run in our families.  This particular question doesn’t bother me too much, but I usually answer with an obnoxious, "No, but THANK GAWD they run in my fertility doctor’s office!"

For some reason (possibly because I’m insane hormonal or exhausted) I say this with just gusto you’d expect a rim shot to sound off in the background and then for me to end with a boisterous "THANK YOU!  I’ll be at the Schenectady HA HA Hacienda all week, please try the veal and don’t forget to tip your wait staff!"  It’s really, really sad. And also?  Not funny. But there you go.

BeBop has been asked dozens of times if the twins are ‘natural.’  He usually just says yes, and leaves it at that.  Being the annoying gal that I am, I told him he should say, "No, they’re made from PLASTIC and actually, we ordered them from China.  Now we’re totally freaked about lead contamination and a recall!" but he would never be so rude.

Sometimes at night I have Restless Leg Syndrome which drives me insane(r).  I want to crawl out of my own skin it’s so annoying.  I usually end up yelling at BeBop to "Puleeze come rub my feet because I have the Reckless Leg Syndrome again!"

He laughs at me and doesn’t believe it’s a real problem. It doesn’t help that I always call it Reckless Leg Syndrome which distracts me for like a minute when I think of my legs drinking too many shots of Goldschläger and then driving home even after their friends tried to stop them…or how my legs might not be putting away enough money in their 401(k) plan.  (It doesn’t take much, people.)

So what else?

It is pretty boring around here.  I don’t feel at all ready, by the way, is that normal?  We have one more baby class, I think the one where they teach you how to feed, water and not drown the babies during their first bath, and maybe how to swaddle them or something.  I hope this class doesn’t include wearing garish lipstick and suckling a water balloon, because once is enough!

We hired a doula, we took our hospital tour, I’ve had all my showers.  I hired a baby nurse who specializes in working with multiples to come for the first two weeks after we get home from the hospital. I’m interviewing pediatricians this week.  The babies’ room is pretty close to being ready, but I have no idea what I still need.  The baby nurse is coming next week to go over everything with me and make suggestions which should be helpful.  We have the car seats and much of the big stuff like the furniture all set.

What else should I be doing?  I need to pack the hospital bag at some point I guess, when does one do that? Anything else that at 30 weeks and three days I should be working on?

As for the names…since I recently shared them with the nice girl who took my order at a local deli, and she means nothing to me and you all mean the world to me, I feel as though I should share.

Jackson and Parker.

The streets we lived on in San Francisco when we first met, fell in lurve and plotted a life together that we hoped would one day include a little boy and a little girl.

And yes, it took us five years of unadulterated HELL to get here, but we’re mighty grateful just the same.

We’re thinking of Francisco (after my grandfather) and Lily (for my MIL) for the middle names.

So Jackson Francisco and Parker Lily: Stay in there long enough to get big and healthy kiddies, but not TOO long since Momma’s about to burst open!